The Family Myth - Robert Neuburger
The Family Myth: Uncovering the Truth About Our Intimate Relationships
In his groundbreaking book, "The Family Myth," Robert Neuburger challenges conventional wisdom about the family and offers a new understanding of our intimate relationships. Drawing on decades of research and clinical experience, Neuburger argues that the traditional nuclear family is not the natural or ideal form of human relationships. Instead, he proposes that we need to move beyond the family myth and create new, more flexible and egalitarian forms of relationships.
The Nuclear Family: A Myth
The nuclear family, consisting of a married couple and their children, is a relatively recent invention. It only became the dominant form of family in the 19th century, as a result of industrialization and urbanization. Prior to this, most people lived in extended families or other communal arrangements.
Neuburger argues that the nuclear family is a myth because it is based on a number of false assumptions. First, it assumes that the family is a natural and universal institution. Second, it assumes that the family is the best place to raise children. Third, it assumes that the family is a source of happiness and fulfillment.
The Problems with the Nuclear Family
Neuburger argues that the nuclear family is not only a myth, but it is also a source of many problems. He points to the high rates of divorce, domestic violence, and child abuse in nuclear families. He also argues that the nuclear family is too isolating and does not provide enough support for its members.
Beyond the Family Myth
Neuburger believes that we need to move beyond the family myth and create new, more flexible and egalitarian forms of relationships. He proposes a number of alternatives to the nuclear family, including:
- Extended families: These families include grandparents, aunts, uncles, and cousins, as well as parents and children.
- Communal families: These families consist of a group of people who live together and share resources.
- Single-parent families: These families are headed by a single parent, who may or may not be married.
- Child-free families: These families do not have children.
Neuburger argues that these alternative forms of relationships can provide more support, flexibility, and happiness than the traditional nuclear family. He encourages us to challenge the family myth and create new, more fulfilling ways of living together.
Why You Should Read This Book
"The Family Myth" is a must-read for anyone who is interested in relationships, family, or social change. Neuburger's groundbreaking research and insights will challenge your assumptions about the family and open your eyes to new possibilities. This book is essential reading for anyone who wants to create a more fulfilling and egalitarian world.
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