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The New Divorce - Pablo Stolze Gagliano / Rodolfo Pamplona Filho
The New Divorce: A Revolutionary Approach to Ending a Marriage and Starting a New Life
In "The New Divorce," Pablo Stolze Gagliano and Rodolfo Pamplona Filho offer a groundbreaking approach to divorce that is both compassionate and practical. Drawing on their extensive experience as divorce lawyers and mediators, the authors argue that the traditional adversarial approach to divorce is outdated and harmful, and they propose a new model that focuses on collaboration, communication, and healing.
Why the Traditional Approach to Divorce Doesn't Work
The traditional approach to divorce is based on the idea that divorce is a battle that must be won at all costs. This adversarial approach often leads to conflict, bitterness, and long-term damage to both spouses and their children. Gagliano and Pamplona Filho argue that this approach is simply not working, and they offer a new model that is based on the following principles:
- Collaboration, not conflict: The authors believe that divorce should be a collaborative process, in which both spouses work together to reach a fair and equitable settlement. This approach requires a willingness to compromise and to put the needs of the children first.
- Communication, not silence: The authors emphasize the importance of communication throughout the divorce process. This means being open and honest with each other, and being willing to listen to each other's concerns.
- Healing, not revenge: The authors believe that divorce should be a time for healing, not revenge. This means letting go of anger and resentment, and focusing on building a new life for yourself.
The New Divorce Model
Gagliano and Pamplona Filho's new divorce model is based on the following steps:
- The decision to divorce: The first step is for both spouses to come to the decision that divorce is the best option for them. This decision should not be made lightly, and it is important to seek professional help if you are struggling with this decision.
- The negotiation process: Once the decision to divorce has been made, the next step is to begin the negotiation process. This process involves working with your spouse and your lawyers to reach a fair and equitable settlement.
- The healing process: The final step is the healing process. This process involves letting go of anger and resentment, and focusing on building a new life for yourself.
The Benefits of the New Divorce Model
The new divorce model offered by Gagliano and Pamplona Filho has a number of benefits over the traditional adversarial approach. These benefits include:
- Reduced conflict and bitterness: The collaborative approach to divorce reduces conflict and bitterness, and it allows both spouses to move on with their lives more quickly.
- Improved communication: The emphasis on communication throughout the divorce process helps to ensure that both spouses are heard and understood. This can lead to a better understanding of each other's needs and concerns, and it can help to build a foundation for a more positive relationship in the future.
- Faster and less expensive: The collaborative approach to divorce is often faster and less expensive than the traditional adversarial approach. This is because it avoids the need for lengthy and expensive court battles.
- More positive outcomes for children: The new divorce model is more likely to lead to positive outcomes for children. This is because it reduces conflict and bitterness, and it allows both parents to remain involved in their children's lives.
Conclusion
"The New Divorce" is a must-read for anyone who is considering divorce. Gagliano and Pamplona Filho offer a compassionate and practical approach to divorce that can help you to avoid the pitfalls of the traditional adversarial approach and to create a more positive future for yourself and your family.